Why Thanksgiving is My Favorite Holiday

Thanksgiving is a holiday that brings families together, fostering memories and traditions that are cherished year after year. For many, including myself, Thanksgiving is more than just a meal; it's a time to reconnect with loved ones and celebrate the simple joys of life.

The Importance of Family Reunion

Family is at the heart of Thanksgiving. It was the only time during the year when we could all gather again, regardless of our individual life paths and values. This holiday held a special place in our hearts, bringing back the warmth and comfort of our childhood. Despite the differences in age and our divergent lifestyles, the bond remained unbroken.

My Childhood Memories

Back in the 1970s, when I was growing up in the Chicago area, my sister and her family would visit us on Thanksgiving Day. These visits were cherished moments that filled our hearts with joy and nostalgia. It was a time when we could reconnect with the people of our childhood, all gathered in the same place as if we had never parted. This tradition celebrated the essence of family and the unbreakable ties that bind us.

Personal Connections and Traditions

For some, Thanksgiving holds a different significance. In my youth, in Pennsylvania, the holiday meant more than just family gatherings; it was the start of deer hunting season. The opportunity to go hunting with my father on the following Monday offered a thrilling and memorable experience. These four days of hunting created some of the best memories of my youth, forging strong bonds and creating lasting impressions.

Visiting Grandparents and Extended Family

During this time, not only did I get to spend Thanksgiving with my immediate family, but I also had the chance to visit my grandparents and extended family. The reunion was a delightful event, filled with joy and love. No other holiday could compare in terms of the pleasure and happiness it brought. Not to mention, the act of being thankful for what we have is a much more rewarding feeling than constantly wishing for what we lack.

The Food We Love

The holiday meal itself is a testament to the richness and traditions of Thanksgiving. One of the crown jewels of the meal is the stuffing and gravy, delicacies that are not commonly available in my current country of residence. The absence of these foods often leaves a longing, but I make a special effort to recreate them once a year, celebrating the memories and traditions that are so dear to my heart.

Missing the Positive Aspects

While I miss the traditional dishes of Thanksgiving, I do not miss the dark history associated with the holiday. It is important to acknowledge and respect the native populations that were displaced and harmed by the actions of our ancestors. It is a reminder to us that while we celebrate, we should also take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of the holiday and reflect on our actions toward others.

In conclusion, Thanksgiving is a time when family comes together, creating memories and celebrating life. Whether it’s the excitement of hunting adventures, the warmth of reuniting with loved ones, or the simple act of being grateful, Thanksgiving remains a favorite holiday for its unique blend of tradition, joy, and meaningful connections.