My Dog vs My Partner: Unraveling the Love Story

The question of how to rank the importance of a dog and a partner can leave one grappling with emotions and complexities. I, for one, have firsthand experienced the dual nature of this relationship and the unique bond one can form with animals.

The Journey from Marriage to Singlehood

My journey to becoming a single individual was not an easy one. My marriage crumbled due to various issues, but none as significant as the betrayal, cheating, stealing, and forgery that transpired between my husband and me. When faced with these allegations and deceit, I ultimately made the decision to prioritize my animals over my partner. Horses, dogs, and cats, being able to offer love without such vices, earned my trust and respect. Thus, I went from a married life to leading a single life, with my animals by my side.

Defining the Unconditional Love for a Dog

It would be a disservice to claim that my dog is less significant than my partner. Instead, it is more accurate to state that my love for my dog is a different type of love. Dogs are not competing for spots in heaven; rather, they bring their unique qualities and love unmatched by humans. The following are just a couple of examples of the myriad ways my dog, Coco, outshines my partner:

Coco responds to my every need with kisses and unwavering love. On the other hand, my partner lacks this kind of unrelenting devotion.

Compared with my partner, who might be trained to be in a certain place at a certain time, Coco, a 3-month-old puppy, eagerly leaps into action without complaint. He simply is happy to be with me, without the need for schedules or restrictions.

My partner may be reserved in her judgment of my cooking, while Coco shows nothing but rapturous enthusiasm for any meal I serve him.

Comparing the Love for Partners vs Pets

It is futile to compare the love for a partner and a pet. They are both different types of love, akin to the love for a child or that for a significant other. Both are essential to us, yet they have different dimensions and expressions. As such, it is impossible to measure one against the other. The love we have for our pets is unconditional and unchanging, making it an irreplaceable part of our lives.

The Sole Devotion to Pets

Is it ethical to prioritize a pet over a partner? Despite the social and familial pressures, my decision has enabled me to live a single life, a recluse who pours his dedication into his growing rodent collection. This lifestyle is a choice I have willingly made, not out of selfishness, but because I believe it is what brings me true happiness.

In the end, it is not about choosing between the two, but about recognizing that their importance in our lives can coexist. It is not a question of superiority; instead, it is a testament to the diverse array of love and support that can be experienced in human and non-human relationships alike.