Happiness in Indian Society: A Comparison Between Single Men and Women

When it comes to happiness in Indian society, the narrative for single men and women often differs. While both may lead fulfilling lives, the daily realities of societal pressures and expectations paint a contrasting picture. In this article, we delve into the unique happiness and challenges faced by single men and women in contemporary Indian society.

Single Women in Indian Society: A Look Behind the Scenes

Let's start with single women. Many find themselves in the limelight for a variety of reasons, and contrary to popular belief, not all of them are eager for a partnership. Some, like myself, choose to live single and embrace the freedom, relaxation, and self-determination that comes with it. Allow me to paint a picture of the typical day for a married woman, juxtaposed with my own state of contentment:

The Typical Day of a Married Woman in Indian Society

Imagine waking up at 5 AM, the first rays of light barely filtering through the window. The immediate to-do list is lengthy: cleaning the house, preparing for the day, serving breakfast to the family, especially the husband and in-laws. Then, off to work herself. Upon returning from her office, the list resumes - preparing vegetables, making tea, evening snacks, and not stopping there, shouldering more household chores. Dinner preparation, another round of serving, and a quiet meal for herself. This routine continues into the night, extending to planning for the next day. If there's any downtime, it might be spent with an exercise session. Ultimately, she wraps her day around 1 AM or 2 AM, usually without any respite or appreciation, and the list of pending chores and family expectations doesn't stop there. The in-laws often have their sights on grandchildren, adding another layer of responsibility and pressure. All of this, without the option to voice concerns or seek relief.

My Perspective as a Single Woman

Reflecting on the lives and routines of my married friends, I find myself appreciating the simpler joys in life. Naps are a regular part of my routine, as is the freedom to do whatever I want within the boundaries of my comfort zone. The ability to eat my favorite food without guilt is a precious luxury. Regular visits to family and friends keep the social circle alive and vibrant. Being able to take decisions for my life without external interference gives me a sense of independence. When I’m not well, I can rest without worrying about the consequences or the gaze of others. With good health and mental peace, such dignified living is enough for me. It’s a realization that for me, the absence of a marriage is better than being in a bad one.

The Role of Single Men in Indian Society

Turning our focus to single men, they too have their own set of challenges and joys. Men, especially single ones, tend to lead a life focused on earning, standing on their feet, and creating a comfortable living. However, as the societal perspective leans towards physical strength, single women face more hurdles. Due to systemic biases and gender pay gaps, women are often paid less than men, a reality that women must navigate. Hence, while single men have the opportunity to stand on their own feet, single women must navigate through a system that can be more challenging to navigate.

Health and Safety for Single Women

Care and safety are paramount when it comes to single women’s well-being, particularly when traveling alone. It is paramount to stay well-connected at all times. Owning a smartphone and keeping it charged is a must. These devices serve as the lifeline to your network of friends, ready to provide comfort and support. When in transit, always remain connected to someone who can help in an emergency. Teach yourself the significance of knowing and using SOS emergency messages. Stay proactive and informed. Dialing 100 can provide immediate assistance in case of any unforeseen danger during your travels.

Conclusion

In the intricate tapestry of life in Indian society, both single men and women have their unique journeys. Though the experiences and challenges may differ, the core essence is the striving for happiness and self-fulfillment amid societal expectations and norms. Every decision and every step towards self-fulfillment is a testament to personal growth and the pursuit of contentment.