Why Black People Use ‘King’ and ‘Queen’: A Cultural Perspective

It is a common practice to observe Black individuals using terms like 'king' and 'queen' to refer to themselves and one another, particularly in family and community settings. This article explores the cultural significance behind this practice, as well as its historical context and modern usage.

Introduction to the Usage

Black individuals often refer to themselves and others with terms like 'king,' 'queen,' or 'Dr.' (even if they don't have a PhD), to build their self-esteem and affirm their self-worth. In my family, these terms are used as pet names, similar to calling someone 'princess' or 'prince.' This article delves into the cultural and historical reasons behind these practices.

Cultural Significance

Calling someone a 'king' or 'queen' is not just about endearment in Black culture; it is a form of cultural self-affirmation. The use of these terms helps counter the harmful legacy of centuries of dehumanization and demonization inflicted upon Black people and the African Diaspora by racist Eurocentrics.

Historically, almost everyone in the Western world once believed that Africans and members of the African Diaspora were subhuman, a belief that still persists in some quarters. The shift toward terms like 'king' and 'queen' represents a movement away from such dehumanizing narratives and toward a more positive affirmation of self and each other.

Self-Esteem Building and Empowerment

Terms like 'king,' 'queen,' and 'Dr.' serve as tools for self-esteem building and empowerment. They help individuals and communities lift themselves up mentally and spiritually, especially in the face of ongoing systemic and cultural challenges.

Language and Empathy

These terms are often used as a form of love language and a way to show respect and empathy. For example, in Harry Potter, the term 'Muggle' is used to refer to non-magical people, and in some Black communities, 'bitch' and 'ho' are reappropriated as terms of endearment, while 'nigger' is a deeply controversial and debated term.

Post-Reconstruction and Cultural Renewal

The concept of referring to oneself as a 'king' or 'queen' gained popularity during the 90s, a time of intense interest in Black or African civilizations. This was part of the broader Black consciousness movement, which also saw the rise of terms like 'brothas' and 'sistahs.'

The West Coast gangsta rap scene helped to popularize some of these terms more broadly. However, the origins of these terms can be traced back to the Black power movement of the 1960s and 1970s, which saw a return to Black pride and cultural consciousness. The Afro, a popular hairstyle in these decades, was a physical representation of this pride.

Evolution of Black Culture

The Afro gave way to the dreadlocks, which came from the Caribbean community, often associated with the Rastafarian movement. This movement also saw the reintroduction of the modified Afro and locs, marking a return to natural hair care and pride.

During this period, heavy gold chains and diamonds were not yet popularized by the commercialism of Bling culture. Now, these items are often seen as collectors' items, highlighting the transformation of Black culture from a state of subhumanity to one of pride and self-affirmation.

Modern Usage and Context

Today, the use of terms like 'king' and 'queen' remains a symbol of Black pride and self-empowerment. It is a conscious choice to view oneself in a higher order, raising the consciousness of both the speaker and the listener. The term reflects a broader cultural movement towards greater self-worth and collective strength.

Conclusion

Referring to oneself and others as 'king' or 'queen' is not just a linguistic quirk but a powerful cultural practice aimed at building self-esteem and fostering a sense of community. It is a testament to the resilience of Black culture in the face of centuries of systemic oppression and a commitment to ongoing self-affirmation.