Perspectives on Being White in Korea: A White Girl's Experience

Are you a white girl from a developed country? If so, you’re a genetic lottery winner. Don’t daydream about the life of Asians because, trust me, you have the better deal.

The Korean Gentlemen and Their Families: A Godsend

I’ve cherished the Korean gentlemen and their families I’ve encountered in the United States. The Korean men at Johns Hopkins University Housekeeping Department went out of their way to assist me. The culture of Korean students and the JHU housekeeping staff was remarkably similar: extremely humble, hardworking, and united in their peace.

The Unfortunate Reality of Korean Society

By chance, I stumbled upon a video showing the true challenges of being Korean. Despite their rich culture and traditions, many Koreans must work exceedingly hard. Especially those without significant property, life is tough.

Interestingly, Koreans and Americans share a common trait: an easy trust in others. Both nations can be susceptible to cult-like beliefs, with new cult leaders easily gaining followers. This stems from a belief in cultural uniqueness and a strong desire to be considered special.

South Korea, with its lack of natural resources, requires its people to work harder to survive. This is a stark contrast to the United States, where people often experience a sense of similarity despite geographical and cultural differences. When Americans come to South Korea, they find the country very familiar and adapt well, though they sometimes feel uncomfortable due to the country's hospitable nature.

Racial Perceptions and Halo Effect

Many Asians associate light skin with beauty, elevating those born with it. This belief leads to a halo effect, where a positive trait influences positive opinions. Being white is perceived as being good, a reality that's deeply ingrained in the psyche of many individuals.

For example, even an underperforming student with a good reputation is likely to receive a better grade than they deserve. They are given the benefit of the doubt and are allowed more leniency. In Korea, where appearance is paramount, being a fair-skinned, attractive white woman confers a perceived advantage in multiple aspects of life.

Personally, my clients often chose me based on my physical traits, although my skills were superior. People assumed I was more qualified, and my appearance and reputation brought in new business. This phenomenon echoes the fact that, despite a person's kindness, physical attractiveness can often be the initial factor in romantic pursuits.

In summary, being white and attractive in Korea is a significant advantage. People generally treat you better, and you are given the benefit of the doubt more frequently. It's a reality that, while unfortunate, is the way it seems to be.