How Do You Feel About Writing in Your Books?

I believe I've written in every single book I own. Add to the personal thoughts, questions, and comments, and underline, highlight key sections. For me, it's a way to enhance my understanding of the book and aid in my thought process. Occasionally, I mark the first page of each book with small notches to track how many times I've read it, and I change the color of my writing to show how my thought process evolves over re-reads.

High School and College vs. Later Years

During my academic years, writing in books was a must. I often underlined and highlighted sections of books for importance and noted down my reflections. As I've grown older, my reading habits have changed. The need to write notes has diminished. Now, I remember more because the books I read align closely with my personal interests and experiences.

Ownership and Respect

If the book is mine, I feel I have every right to write within its pages. I underline, highlight, and make notes, especially with non-fiction reference books when I'm studying a specific topic. Sometimes, I use sticky notes and mark important pages. However, when it comes to fiction, I prefer to read without leaving marks. I treat books with a little reverence, especially older ones that are in good condition. Reading rare 100-year-old historical volumes is a delicate process; I handle them carefully and ensure my hands are clean.

Some older books have marginal notes from previous owners, and while it can be interesting, I prefer to keep my readings undisturbed. I’m glad others are reading and expressing their thoughts, even if it means smaller margins and notes for me. In the end, it's a matter of personal preference. Each reader finds the way that works best for them.

Respect for Readers' Preferences

It’s important to respect the different approaches to reading. Some people prefer to keep a book untouched in its pristine condition, while others feel the need to interact with the text. There's no one 'right' way, and what matters most is that people are reading and engaging with what they find valuable. I'm glad when others read and express their thoughts, even if it means I have to admire the book from a distance.

In conclusion, whether to write in books or not is a personal choice. Let's support and respect each other's preferences and enjoy the joy of reading in our unique ways.