Final Thoughts: What Would You Say on Your Last Day?

Imagining the final moments of life is a profound and sobering exercise. Each person has their own unique set of circumstances and desires. Here, contributors share their visions of how they would spend their last day, their final words, and their reflections on life’s fleeting nature.

Planning the Last Day

One participant describes an ideal last day starting early in the morning with a wellness routine. They suggest activities such as yoga and creating a rangoli, preparing a hearty meal, and watching cherished videos. Reviewing the day with thankfulness is a common theme, as seen in visiting a temple to honor their blessings. Simple pleasures, like wearing a favorite dress, brushing teeth, and listening to a bedtime story, are also highlighted. It’s a reminder that moments of joy and connection can bring immense comfort and peace.

"Do whatever you want even its your last day or its your whole life." - Unknown

Silence and Reflection

Another voice suggests that words are often overrated and that one would not speak to anyone, given their status as a hermit. The silence speaks volumes, representing a deep internal reflection rather than external communication. This perspective adds another dimension to the question, emphasizing the value of introspective moments.

"I wouldnt say anything. Words are over-rated and besides Im a hermit. Who TF would I be talking to?" - Unknown

Acknowledging Life’s Blessings

A more philosophical thought comes from someone who has lived to 87 years of age. Their response is a heartfelt thankfulness for a long and fulfilling life. The reflection delves into the importance of appreciating the present and recognizing the impact of our time here.

"I would answer your question then go about my day without suspecting that I won't be on Earth tomorrow." - John

Another participant emphasizes the value of not letting life’s challenges consume us. They acknowledge the stress of worrying about unimportant events and suggest that a better perspective can be gained when we reflect on our experiences with a critical eye. This aligns with the idea of gratitude and acceptance.

"May i add that too few people realize that they are misled into stressing about innumerable events often for decades - when most of those events could have just been dismissed. If this gets you thinking I hope I may add that as a psychologist I know you can't research this without going 'oh my goodness. Why wasn't I ever told this!'" - Happy John

Disappointment and Farewell

A more emotional perspective arises when someone expresses intense frustration, stating, "Wished I’ve NEVER DID SEE YOU EVER AGAIN … I’m … I’m DONE WITH Every One Of You!!" followed by a dramatic gesture of throwing someone off a platform. This response highlights a range of emotions and the complexity of human sentiments during life’s last moments.

Another participant suggests a more serene and personal final moments, eating a Christmas fruitcake, drinking beer, and taking a walk in the woods. This portrays a way to find peace and contentment even in the face of ending, showing that final days can be a time for tranquility and simplicity.

"I wouldn’t tell anybody. I would just go out and buy a Christmas fruitcake and eat several slices with a Modelo Negro beer. Then I might take a walk in the woods while smoking a cigar." - Unknown

These diverse responses to the question encapsulate the range of human experience and the ways in which we prepare for the inevitable. Whether through joy, reflection, or even defiance, the last day is a poignant reminder to cherish every moment and to live with purpose.

Thank you, Sumit Dagar, for sharing these insightful reflections.