Class and Prejudice: How Perception Shapes Our Experiences

Have you ever been treated differently because of your class or socioeconomic status? Many of us have experienced such moments, where our identity and background are the focus of judgment. In England, while you might be judged based on your nationality or accent, the dynamics can be starkly different when you venture into other parts of the world.

Traveling and Perception

For individuals like me, who travel internationally, clothing and appearance play a significant role in how we are perceived and treated. In England, dressing professionally, especially in a suit and tie, can lead to better treatment in various settings, such as boarding flights or visiting shops and restaurants.

On my last two transatlantic flights, I was upgraded simply because of my appearance and attire. Similarly, when traveling to a large city in a more casual setting, wearing professional attire can result in better service at shops, museums, or restaurants. This is not to say that everyone deserves discrimination-free treatment, but it does highlight how our physical appearance can influence our interactions in different environments.

The Impact of Socioeconomic Status

My personal experiences have taught me that socioeconomic status plays a significant role in how we are perceived and treated. In high school, I came from a family where my father was an elected official, and we were all very academically successful. This success and recognition led to better treatment from store clerks and teachers, as they could identify my family's tastes and history.

However, my experiences changed significantly when I took a job in a small machine shop during college breaks. Abandoning the clean-cut, top scholar-athlete image, I became a long-haired, oiled clothes-wearing individual with a strong smell of a machine shop. This change in appearance led to a dramatic shift in how I was treated in public spaces. Even in stores where I had previously been able to get help choosing gifts for my parents, service became more difficult. Out of town, things deteriorated even further.

Adapting to New Perceptions

After graduation, I decided to cut my hair and dress in a way that portrayed a more socially acceptable image. This decision resulted in improved service in various public settings. I am now seen as a "low-key small town guy" who is more acceptable in the eyes of the public.

Interestingly, the local private college students still treat me as just a "towny guy," despite my credentials and experiences. My wife, whose resume is fuller than mine, is also treated similarly by these students. This experience underscores the challenge of being pigeonholed based on one's background, especially in educational settings.

Conclusion: The Power of Perception

These experiences remind us that our perception is a powerful tool that can shape how we and others are treated. Dressing well and presenting ourselves professionally can open doors, but these are not insurmountable barriers. It is crucial to recognize individual differences and avoid making assumptions based on perceived social class or economic status. Understanding and respecting diversity can promote better interactions and more equitable treatment for all.